What is a Lingam / Happy Ending Massage?
Lingam massage is designed specifically for men and is part of art of Tantra. In Tantra the penis is referred to as the Lingam which means "wand of light" in Sanskrit. The Lingam massage is the counterpart to the Yoni massage both focused on the pelvic region. The purpose of this massage is not strictly sexual or orgasm-oriented, but the facilitating intimate sensual healing. The lingam is in fact seen as the centre of the male's creative energies. A great lingam massage can be expected to improve your creative abilities and sensibilities.
Orgasm is not the goal of the lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be accustomed to.
From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage. Men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The lingam massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
How is Lingam Massage performed?
You will lie on their back in a relaxed position. We will share a moments of sweet and juicy caress together so next I can lubricate your penis and start the lingam healing massage. My hands will be gently but firmly wrapped around your penis and I will start moving them up and down the shaft slowly and steadily. As you will become more aroused I will vary the speed and pressure, and add some twisting corkscrew motions of my hand around your penis. I will use both my hands in tandem - one hand form a ring with my thumb and forefinger at the base of your shaft and gently tugging downward, while the other hand will continue in an up and down movement. I will also wrap both hands around your member and move them in opposite directions. If it appears that you are going to ejaculate I will back off, allowing the Lingam to soften a little before resuming the massage. I will do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and then backing off. It is important to remember that the goal is not orgasm in and of itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want and you can become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate. The result is a very expanded sex life.
To make sure you will have a truly scream-worthy orgasm, as you nears climax, I will continue stroking your shaft with one hand while the other will massages your perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between your anus and testicles). You'll be squirming with delight as the tension builds and comes to a…head .For many people, pleasure continues after orgasm. If you wish, I can continue touching your penis, testicles, or other places on your body to help the moment linger.
Benefits of Lingam Massage
- Obtaining better control of your sexual energy and your sex drive.
- Solving sex related problems such as premature ejaculation.
- Improve blood circulation for a better firmer erection.
- Better control over internal energy.
- Fight stress and depression.
- A DEEP, POWERFUL, BODY-SHAKING ORGASM.... LINGAM MASSAGE!